What Is Loving for the Right Reasons?

Hey Amigos, hope the week is going alright for you and your family? And hope you have learnt to manage the weather, I know some people are loving this weather because of the coolness.

My talk today is a bit about love. Now can any of you explain to me the reason why we love? I believe we will know the meaning of love before knowing the reason, and I think everyone has his or her own definition of love, right?

Well, let me state my definition of love, Love is an unexplainable affection you feel for someone you admire and trust.

Now the question is, why do we love?

Many people love for different reasons, and understand the meaning of love in different ways. The sad part of it is that many people love for wrong reasons.

Some people love because they want to be loved, maybe they lack love while they are growing up, or maybe because they just want to feel special, most of these people don’t even know or have a better meaning of love.

Some love for the idea of being in love, these people tend to watch lots of romantic movies and read lots of romantic novels, these set of people believe in love, but haven’t felt real love before, so they think they love someone based on the kind of love they observe from movies and books.

Some love for the sake of having someone to love. These people just want someone around, so they tend to love the person unconsciously.

That is not real love; all those are artificial reasons of being in love. Now I’m not talking about lust or like but love, the feeling or the subconscious feeling as the case maybe, is there, but they are not there for the right reasons.

Some love out of gratitude.

Some love for what they can get from someone, it might start as a game, but later increase to love, in this cases, the love can genuine, and it also can be artificial.

There are so many false reasons, we should first learn the basics, meaning and reasons of love before getting into it.

It is of importance to know the meaning of love and understand the reason of being in love.

So, anyone with a good explanation should please enlighten us on the reason for love.

Got to blast, feel free to make a comment in the comment box below…..

Hugs and kisses from me!