The Do's and Don't's Of A Good Relationship - 2

Loving someone unconditionally can be a handful,if the person doesn't love you in return.

Every lady needs a man to hold, protect her, tell her that she’s beautiful, and understands how she feels and is ready to stand by her side no matter what. I know it sounds so cliché, but trust me that is basically why a woman needs a man, the most important part is a woman needs a man that can give her beautiful babies, hehehehehehe.

Now ladies, it’s your turn, I addressed the guys before on The'ts Of Do's and Don't's Of A Relationship Here. As a lady who I’m very sure needs the quality of man that I have listed above, what do you think you should do to attract such a man?

Like I said to the guys, you should be yourself, and always be open and straightforward. Don’t pretend to be what you are not, because the real you will come out whether you want it to or not.

Ladies always end up as loosers in cases of pretense, that is why as a lady you should be plain, and always request the guy to be plain as well. Guys of these days don’t want a lady that they will be spending their hard earned cash on, guys prefer to have a lady to catch fun with and leave the next day, they don’t want a lady that will be asking them money for this and that. A guy will even prefer a lady to be his baby mama than have her as a wife.

The thing to do in cases like this, is to let the guy know upfront who you are, because if you pretend and the guy eventually find out the kind of person you truly her, he won’t hesitate to shake you off like a hot potato.

I’ve come to realize that most ladies prefer a man that loves them even if they  don’t love him, these ladies end up having a bad breakup, because it just can’t work, the both of you have to be in love and be ready to face whatever challenge life had to throw. A one way love relationship cannot hold the storms and calms of relationship. If you don’t love or have any real feelings for the guy, please let him go softly, even if he pleads his love for you will be enough, please don’t accept it, many relationship fall down because of this one way relationship. I think I will make a different post on this to elaborate more, when I do I will post the link HERE.

So, ladies, girls, be truthful in your relationships or expected relationships. A guy who will accept you for who you are and not for what you pretend to be will love you and respect you for you. Guys respect ladies that say their mind and say things as they see it, and that respect always blossom into love.

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